What do you value most in life?
Choose it & pursue it relentlessly
Beyond Order Rule 7 Explained
Hey, guys, Max here, do you wanna be successful in life? I mean I mean true success, not just a tiny bit of success, but a huge, vast amount of success. Do you want to be successful? Well, here's a simple formula. Beyond order. Rule seven, let's go.
Rule seven, work as hard as you possibly can on at least one thing and see what happens.
One thing, that's all we're asking for. One thing to figure out, all the other videos talk about finding that one shining star, that one north star that really keeps you keeps you going forward, you need to figure out what that is for you. It might be family. It might be career. It might be serving your fellow man. I think all three of those are kind of where they all come together into one thing. I don't know what it is, though.
You've got to figure out what is your shining star, because once you find that one thing and you latch onto it and invest all your being every single ounce of energy, you can give in to that. That is when you will find either it's going to be successful, which is great. Let's celebrate that we're starting to be successful. We need to pivot into something else or find something else where we're going to have that success that you really want another define the success.
So you define that success. You can have a success. But finding that one thing and working towards it with all of your might, all of your gusto, that'll come up.
And this is not to say that you can't have multiple things. You're investing in multiple things. You're really going for it. But before you focus on three things, you need to focus on the first one, that first one could break into new more things. It could breed into more things. It could just be that one thing and you run with it as far as you can. But figuring out that one thing is really important. Lack of internal union also makes itself known in the increased suffering, magnification of anxiety, absence of motivation and lack of pleasure that accompany indecision and uncertainty.
Do you even know what you want to accomplish? Because if you don't, you're going to have so much uncertainty. It's going to paralyze you. Knowing what you want is how you get what you want. You cannot accomplish something you have not defined. So define it. You cannot want to accomplish it. A dozen things. Well, actually, you can you can want to accomplish a dozen things, but you can start with the one thing and that one thing could lead to three and then maybe you in a dozen, if you can accomplish a dozen things in your life, my goodness, you have a very productive life.
I need I need your help. Help me but figure out that one thing before you move on to the multitude of things that's so easy to be. I want to be a jack of all trades. I want to have and do all these different things. But until you actually focus on one thing, you can't ever make it to the dozen yet to start with the one people who are aimless, who have no pleasure in life, they may have temporary, hedonistic moment to moment pleasure with substances and women or whatever it may be, drugs.
But having that long term satisfaction over a lifetime, it's very difficult. It's very fleeting. But there's really a simple formula how to do it. And it's finding that one thing, that meaning that shining star, that North Star and falling through, not what when the first one comes, because the speed up comes for everybody. That's freedom's always come for every single person, many speed bumps. It's persevering through those speed bumps and seeing it through until the keyword, until you become successful, until you hit that peak, until you hit that spot.
But until you hit that spot, you keep on going forward. Forget the dozen, focus on one thing at a time, focus on the one thing, and then from the one thing, it can grow into two, three and multiple things, but become proficient. But the foundation for that one thing, then you can begin. Other things always start with step one, though. The social consequences are just as serious. The biological a person who is not well put together overreacts to the slightest hint of frustration or failure.
He cannot enter into productive negotiations even with himself, because he cannot tolerate the uncertainty of discussing potential alternative futures. Have you ever met somebody who is a two year old and a 30 year old's body? How every single little thing, the person cutting them off the Starbucks line being too long, the weather being too hot, the weather being too cold, it's like the tiniest little thing. Set them off into a flurry of frustration and anger. And I've I've been there, believe me.
I just look back on it now and think, my goodness, I used to let the weather, the music at the gym, the momentary pain of stuffing my toe, take me off my route from where I was going that day. What seriously, those tiny little things are what do you what are wedding, your wedding, those tiny little things affect you drastically. Big issue there. And again, I would ask I would if I if people had the mind do it.
What are you focused on then? What's your meaning in life. What do you what's your one thing you're going for right now. What do you want. Accomplishments, life. I bet you most of the people are so vague. I want to be successful. I want to be better and nicer. All these stupid phrases that people use that don't mean anything until you actually define that you're going to have. No meaning, and if you have no meaning, no satisfaction, and having that satisfaction is really what life is all about.
I mean, there are so many potential futures there. What are like infinite? There's infinite pathways you can take, which is overwhelming, which is waiting to break it down on who are you, who are you not figure out who you are and pursues that. And then those pathways become a lot, maybe, maybe a few and choose which one is the best or choose which ones you think is the best and see it through. And also, this is why we need to make men strong again.
Frustration, failure and certainty are all part of normal life. The only way to become strong and resilient is by acting the way you should. There's nobody coming to save you. So if you want to become a stronger person, well, when you're in a situation where you have the opportunity to be a little weenie or to be stronger instead of choosing. The former choose the latter choose how would someone in this instance who has strong act use that for every part of your life?
How would someone who is generous act? How would someone who is compassionate, loving a multitude of all these really good things that you want to be strong? Obviously, how would that person act? It's good to have an ideal. It's good to have an ideal. So figure out what the ideal is or the ideal situation and go from there acting that way. How would this person act? How would a strong person act in this situation and then do that?
Don't think about it, just do it. Don't even remember how you used to be weak. I used to be a little weeny, feeble minded person, become resilient, become strong. We need men who are really strong because they keep the culture and keep everything moving forward.
I want you guys to like, comment and subscribe to this video. The Question of the Day is what gives you most anxiety in life about life, about the future, whatever it may be? My answer is not fulfilling my full potential on Earth. It literally gives me goose bumps and chills down my spine when I think about if I continue down a path of not pursuing what I need to pursue, not being who I should be for being myself, my partner, my family, my community, if I don't go down, if I keep on going down that wrong path, my Leatherby in shambles.
So it motivates me that negativity motivates me to become a better person. Negativity is a really good motivating tool to an extent. Now, of course, the good things about motivating me, but when I think about who I could be making these bad decisions. Yeah, no, thank you. Aim point. All this is part of the maturation and discipline and something to be properly valued. If you nothing, you become plagued by everything. If you omit nothing, you have nowhere to go, nothing to do and nothing of high value in your life.
As value requires the ranking of options and sacrifice of the lower to the higher, you got to make a decision. What do you value most in life? Choose wisely and choose and pursue it. Avoid becoming a half a dozen flimsy things, become one person, one strong, great person that focuses on one thing and that gives that that value. It has to be a hierarchy. What's the most valuable thing between what's not valuable, not valuable is watching television in my life.
Well, although I really want to watch television, sometimes it's very valuable and the rest high is developing personally, watching videos, reading, becoming a better person as much as I can. I'm not perfect by any means, but striving towards that is so much more important than the momentary pleasures that again kind of plague me every day. The word obsession and having obsessions has been really downgraded and really almost a it's kultury bad.
To be obsessed is one thing, but the reality is what if you're obsessed with elevating alleve alleviating poverty, but if you're obsessed with becoming a better person, becoming a better partner, a better community member, a better citizen of your country, that is a good thing to be with. It's all a matter of what are the most valuable things in life if you're obsessed with the newest TV show? Well, I would say that's not as important as the newest thing to be working on yourself internally.
But that's a hierarchy of values. You figure out what's more important. So it's OK to be obsessed, just become obsessed with the good things in life, the things that going to promote welfare and the better, the better of yourself, your family and society and pursue that relentlessly, be obsessed and go for it. If you work as hard as you can on one thing, you will change. You will start to also become one thing instead of the clamoring multitude you once were.
Don't become a half dozen or a dozen mediocre people a mediocre faces. You can become one resilient, strong individual that can take on life as it comes. Nobody wants weak people. Nobody wants people who are halfway in you to be 100 percent in or don't be an all. Well, that's the formula of how to be successful.
Focus on your North Star, your shining star. Find out what that is. Once you have and pursue it, no matter what, no matter what is happening, pursue it with everything in you to the nth degree. Yes, it sucks at times. Yes, it hurts. Yes. You're going to be tired. Yes, they're going to be exhausted from waking up and doing this over and over again. But eventually the process becomes very enjoyable. It's not fun to do something once that sucks.
But throughout time, as you do something that's unenjoyable over and over and over again, you can become, shall we say, stronger to it. It's not quite as difficult anymore. And you have to keep on figuring out what the next North Star is. Figure out the North Star is, make it very, very, very difficult and pursue it every single day because you enjoy this. Make sure to comment like subscribe and I will catch you guys on the next roll.